Had welts from these parental disciplinary tools (weapons)!
Can't tell you how many were broken in the pursuit of discipline in my childhood home in the 60's&70's! Who out there was also whipped with a section of orange HotWheels track!? YIKES!
Now those... left WELTS!
How times have changed. For the better, in my opinion. Children should definitely be raised with disciple, rules & consequences. But there's no need for any type of physical abuse of kids! None!
You can be lazy & react with violence...
or you can be a loving, patient & mature adult & parent, and give them guidance & love when they do wrong or stray. Encouragement & positive lessons & modeling good behavior. Help kids to grow & understand & learn from their mistakes. I just don't see how beating a small child, even spanking them, is something that's going to have a long term positive result in their lives.
💔Love shouldn't hurt!
💔That's an important lesson!
Be kind! Be positive in your parenting. What can a small child do, that's so awful that you would feel the need to strike them! I believe children develop in a healthier way when they are guided and disciplined in a positive, loving and respectful way.
Taught to do what is right, because it's right!
Not out of fear, if you do something wrong!
Patience & love!
We wonder why men become abusers & women become punching bags & doormats. Let's raise a generation of kind, patient & righteous children! Each generation learns from the past.
When we know better...
We have to do better!
Children are my favorite kind of people!!!
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